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I am getting tired of reading all these posts about how everyone's husbands are assholes, cheating on them, etc. Honestly, the vast majority of these marriages happen because people suck at assessing the personalities of the person they are about to marry. People either overlook shortcomings or think they can magically change them after they have a ring on their finger. Your husband didn't suddenly become an ass- he was one before you married him, you were just too stupid and naive to realize it. Don't expect sympathy for something that was at least 50% your fault.
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People talk about missing the sex. It's been so long that I don't even think about the sex anymore. I just miss lying on the couch, watching TV together....read
I just want this shit to be over already....read
I stay up really late when he's gone because I hate climbing into that bed alone....read
I am so, so sick of this election. Can it be over already? Please?...read
Real Men do not cheat. Immature little boys that can't keep it in their pants cheat. I'm sorry that some of you have had the misfortune of being married to some of them....read
Sarah Palin gives SNL such GREAT material to work with!! That wink...ughhhhh..it kills me!! LOL! She is SO damn annoying....read
I masturbate to my husband's porn when he's not around......read
Without him I am incomplete....read
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Ok, it is ASK, not "axe". It sounds really...REALLY dumb when you say "I axed him a question." It makes...read more
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Wow talk about harsh, lets see my ex-husband was abusive yet I never saw it coming but I am just to naive and stupid right? He was sweet and nice to me until the day we lived together and he had me to hit me and whatever else.... I got out of it but I didn't know he would hit me otherwise I wouldn't have married him, so stop being a bitch and think about what you say before you talk shit about others.
Wow ur post was kinda ok til u called people stupid. Nice.
Are you married OP? Have a significant other? Curiousity is getting to me b/c if you are, I wonder if he knows how stupid you are to make such a stupid observation about marriages and people.
Are you married OP? Have a significant other? Curiousity is getting to me b/c if you are, I wonder if he knows how stupid you are to make such a stupid observation about marriages and people.
OP here- yes I am married, and my ex husband and I divorced 10 years ago. Hindsight is 20 20- now that I look back, all the signs were there that he would cheat on me. He was emotionally abusive both before and after our wedding. I just made the mistake of thinking I could change him, and I see other people making the same mistake ALL THE TIME. Yes, I was stupid. But I blame nobody but myself and my husband for ending up where I did. The point of my post is that usually, the asshole is an asshole before the ring goes on the finger.
OP, You went through it to see it, so now you know what to look for. Still cant call someone stupid for doing the same thing you did. Love is Blind and everyone else looking in can see whats wrong but not always the case to the person in love.
what does this have to do with re-entry. And I agree it does take two to tango-- so to speak. But it's not ok to call someone stupid because they're having marital issues.
Where else was she supposed to post it? There's no "marriage" category, LOL
I think men put up a front. Had I know from the start he was an drunk i would have never married him because i truely hate druggies and drunks.
Unless you date for a really long time and go through a lot of stuff together it's impossible to know everything about a person before you get married. Men are on thier BEST behavior when they are dating you. Once you get married and move in you see more of their true colors. Example: When we were dating my husband was extremely tidy...well he was living in barracks so he had to be! He would come over on weekends to see me and even help me clean my apartment! Then when we got married and got a place together I quickly realized that he's a messy, lazy SlOB! I guess he thought that since we were married then I would be picking up after him all the time or something. I love him but it's been an issue with us since and no, I never saw it coming.
Wow, expecting ppl to magically know how to avoid life's mistakes IS WHAT IS STUPID here!
are YOU so naive to believe that ppl dont need to learn these life lessons?
Who are YOU to be judging anyways...oh you've been through it so you are entitled to talk shit? I think not princess.
My question is why would you EVER date or marry someone to change them??? You pick a significant other who has flaws that you are willing to live with NOT one where you think you can tinker with them and change it...PPL don't change UNTIL they are ready too.
Oh my gosh, I completely agree with this post!!!
I think men put up a front. Had I know from the start he was an drunk i would have never married him because i truely hate druggies and drunks.
Unless you had been dating for like 2 weeks, which is also ridiculous, how could you possibly have not known someone was a "drunk"??
I agree with this post to an extent. I do agree that people thing they can change their spouse, but I think that some people change for the worse. Some men just turn into douchebags. Not all of them are that way before..
My DH was a complete douchebag while we were dating. We broke up for a year and then I decided to give him a second chance. Married for almost three years now and still going strong.
And actually, the ring on my DH's finger IS what changed him. What happened to his parent's marriage is exactly what he didn't want to see happen to us. Once we were married, he did change not only for me and the kids, but also for himself.