It wasn't the strain and stress of having to be a single parent for Sharon, the wife of an army pilot and mother of two that tore her marriage apart -- it was the fact that her husband returned from Iraq a "changed man."
Have you ever thought about joining the military? I can't say that I ever have and here are some of my reasons. Please feel free to comment and add yours!
My husband came home from deployment with this whole other side that I'd never seen! He's a LOT more adventurous sexually and I'm LOVING it!
No, I don't want to join your mafia, I don't care how much I'm worth, and I do NOT want to have all those 'bumper stickers' all over my myspace. Keep your spam....I'm not interested....read
I hate that whenever I talk about this upcoming deployment, people who don't know anything about the military lifestyle or deployements say, "Don't worry, time will go fast" or "It's not as bad over there as it was before" I...read
I just miss having those conversations in bed with him before we went to sleep. It's the little things you miss the most when their gone:[ Only 5 months left:]...read
I am just very very tired....read
After almost 7 years of marriage, basic, AIT, and 2 deployments I am very proud to say I am one of the few that has always been faithful to my husband. And I know I will stay faithful to him...read
I need to take a week off for me....read
I hate when people type LiKe ThIs ItS DAMN IRRITATING!!!...read
I am proud of the people on here that have given helpful or encouraging advice to people who are looking for it....read
I just want to lay with him and hear his heartbeat....read
Would it kill you to put the toilet paper on the holder?! (setting it on top of the old one thats on the holder or on the back of the commode doesn't count!)...read
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If you can't comb your hair, don't leave your house. If you can't control your kids inside the store, then...read more
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This is kind of a question and a confession all in one. Confession: I don't understand how so many girls...read more
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AWESOME! I hope mine is the same way!!!!!
Hmm. Makes you wonder just why that might be, doesn't it?
Wow 7:13 Jealous much?
"Hmm. Makes you wonder just why that might be, doesn't it?"
...Actually, that's the first thing that popped in my head too
I KNEW someone was gonna say what 7:13 said...don't listen to them!!! You can get new ideas and more confidence about being "adventurous" just from watching a good porn!! It most certainly does not mean you should think he cheated!!
:) have fun :)
Fun Fun, me and my DH have been talking about new ideas while he is deployed so when he comes home it should be awesome. Have fun:) I know I will.
Deployments give those guys a lot of time to fantasize and of course they're completely horny when they get home. Enjoy it!
I call it "Hello, Sailor!!" time!!!
So his deployment whore taught him some tricks huh?
Nice 1:26 AM, real nice.
Jesus, ever googled on the interwebs? You can learn ALL sorts of stuff without a "deployment whore."
I'm 7:13. No, I'm not jealous. It's the first thing that came to mind when I read her post. Mine has never cheated. But isn't that one of the signs? Drastic change in sexual desire or what have you?
I know I'm not the only one thinking it. Perhaps just one of the few that would actually say it.
I see no reason to assume that he's been with someone else. There are a lot of reasons why he could feel more adventurous.........for example, other soldiers talk about what they miss sexually! Possibly he's been listening.
DH is a Navy medical officer and works with Marines, most of whom are in their early 20s and obviously at their peak sexually. He tells me the sex tips they give him-some are impressive others are not. We've been married 20 years so we can use some good new ideas, but on the other hand we have come up with some pretty good tricks of our own during this long term relationship!.
So yes, my DH (the old goat) comes home with some new ideas, but it has never crossed my mind that he's getting his ideas from cheating! Especially if he is in OEF/OIF b/c there's not a whole lot of personal time or privacy out there during which to conduct an affair.
Not a whole lot of time? That's why it happens so often too right?