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VP Sarah Palin -- Good for women? Good for the Military?

TMWC is your place to talk about what's on your mind and for many of you (and us in the civilian world), Sarah Palin has caused quite a stir. Men and women on both sides of the political fence, those who've served and those who've observed, are both questioning and celebrating John McCain's surprise choice for VP. The blogosphere and the media are buzzing with opinions and facts alike - with many excited to see a women taking center center and many others claiming that she's not ready to be commander in chief. Many are cheering for another woman taking center stage, and many are worried that this is a woman who's been promoted for the wrong reasons and is going to be blamed when things don't go right.

Let's keep the confessional a place for your personal lives -- but feel free to talk about your political views here. We want to hear from you - the women who serve and the women who stand behind the men who serve. But please remember to play nice - - no doubt there will be a wide range of opinions here. Healthy debate encouraged!

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Anonymous said:

Sarah Palin is a pawn. Plain and simple. Sad thing is, I don't think she even realizes it. Did you?
She was not even selected by John McCain, she was selected by his team of consultants, campaign advisors, writers, etc. He only met this woman ONCE in his entire life and feels she is the best VP for his ticket? Please, this is obviously a move to outshine the first black man to be president by Republicans taking on a woman to run as the first female vice president. Who in the world is Sarah Palin is the reaction from much of the media and viewers when he bought her to the stage yesterday to show us his running mate. Sorry, Sarah - it is a little late in game when elections are 65 days away to try to get America to get to know you. Poor timing. Poor choice. Probably poor outcome.

Anonymous said:

I couldn't care less. They're all the same, no matter what skin color, gender, etc., and they sure don't care about us! Engaging in politics means having to check your brain at the door, anyway.

Anonymous said:

I think it's tacky McCain chose her. He's just using her to try to get the female votes. What scares me the most is what if McCain is elected and something happens to him? We'll be stuck with a person that has zero experience internationally and basically has no clue period. Our country is enough shambles right now, we don't need her adding to it.

Anonymous said:

This choice is so transparent. I'd be embarrassed to be a McCain supporter at this point. She is no doubt a strong, respectable woman in her own right, but Vice-President of the United States? Possibly the leader of the free world should McCain get elected and quite possibly expire during office? This is really scary. She is a woman, yes, great. I want a woman president, but not this one and not this way. She is way too religious right, not a direction we need to continue to take this country.

Anonymous said:

I agree with most of the posts. She was just a pawn. McCain was "trying" to play it smart and be a little trickster but he's just not very good. As someone else said. The choice was very transparent. He didn't even choose her until after Obama had announced Biden. I wonder...if Obama had chosen Clinton...who would McCain have chosen? We all know the only reason he chose this VERY under experienced, lying, so called mother of 5 and grandmother to be was because she doesn't have a penis.

Choosing a woman is great but choose her for the RIGHT reasons McCain!!!! I just hope that the super-feminists out there aren't too blind to see what this really is.

Anonymous said:

Feminist, they dont work for women they work for liberal women

Anonymous said:

7;21 you think it is tacky but if he didnt choose her and somehow found out later that he didnt, you would call him a chauvinist and accuse him of discrimination.

11:10 you honestly think that McCain is going to all of a sudden poof be dead the second he walks into office? I mean seriously, even if he did pass Sarah Palin has more experience then Obama, why not worry about Obama and his lack of experience?

Anonymous said:

5:45, have you researched Obama's experience? Or are you just going with what you are being fed and assume he has none? I assure you there is a much greater depth to his political and life experience as compared to Palin. I am not in the least bit worried about Obama. I am so grateful for the prospect of a president with a brain as well as a heart. This country needs a person who truly cares and can make a positive difference in our reputation around the world. And does it not at all bother you that McCain never had any sort of relationship with his choice of a running mate? Really? I find that more disturbing than any other part of all this. And now he calls her his "soulmate"? And no, most likely he won't drop dead as he walks into office, but we all know he is getting up in years and what he experienced in Vietnam most likely took a few years off his life. I hope he continues to live a long and productive life as I do admire him, just not as our president.

Anonymous said:

I feel terrible for her daughter.

Anonymous said:

I dont really understand why people spend so much time thinking about WHY she was chose, or about her daughter, or how likeable she is, what a woman VP candidate means...etc. Do you agree with her the ISSUES, or not?? That is all that should be considered. I personally do not agree with her on the issues (or McCain) so I will not be voting for her, period. The rest dosen't matter.

Anonymous said:

I felt bad for her, but after seeing her face plastered on every gossip magazine and all her dirty laundry being aired all over every news source I know she brought it on herself. She knew damn well she was being used as a pawn by McCain's campaign and was only chosen because she has a vagina. The U.S. is fascinated by her life, but it's not in the way that the GOP wanted. Watching Sarah Palin is like watching a slow moving train wreck... you can't stop that it's happening, but you're horrified nonetheless.

Anonymous said:

I agree it's a train wreck. Hopefully one that will crash and burn sooner than later (not literally of course). I can't imagine having this dog and pony show leading our country for the next four years.
Of course I don't agree with her (or McCain) on the issues and I am an Independent. It's just such a lame move on his part and the far right is gobbling this up. I actually heard someone say today, "Well Rush likes her!" Like he would dare to say so if he didn't? It would cost them the election!
The fact that her daughter is pregnant matters not in the least to me, it's the fact that she chose to run for VP at a time when her family is in crisis. Priorities. Just like I was pissed at John Edwards for running when his wife had cancer. Priorities people.

Anonymous said:

Time waits for noone. You can't let opportunities like being the VP of the United States just pass you by...

Anonymous said:

Knowing what is at stake for our military men if her and McCain get in office is scary. He thinks we should be in Iraq indeffinately. Personally from being there for a year serving in the Active Army I see it is our time to slowly start pulling out. He is another Bush and we don't need that!!!

Anonymous said:

She runs a family, has run a town, and now runs a state.

She felt like the governors' private jet was wasteful to the taxpayers of Alaska, so she sold it. Same with the chef, same with the drivers.

When oil prices skyrocketed, she put more money into the pockets of Alaskans.

She wants to cut taxes and has done so in Alaska. She has taken on seasoned political veterans and won, and she's a down to earth, real person.

More people voted for her for Mayor than voted for Biden in the entire National Democratic primary! He was run out of the race last time he tried for the nomination because he was a proven plagarist.

It's apples to oranges, but she has more executive experience than Obama and she is independent--not part of the Chicago political machine beholden to political benefactors. She is more sensible and well spoken than Obama and frankly I like her much better.

So I have no problem at all with her choice--she certainly is not a pawn--she is a renegade and maverick just like John--neither of them like wasteful government spending and neither do I so it's a perfect fit.

Speak to the facts, people, and the issues. If you think she was chosen for her vagina, then Obama was chosen for his black penis--see how stupid that sounds?

Get over yourselves, support whomever you feel is going to do a better job, but leave the petty jealousy behind and stick to the facts and issues. If Obama can leave his young girls behind to campaign, she can do the same with her kids. Unless there is a double standard for a woman?

Anonymous said:

I will be voting for McCain (a)because Obama has no experience and is a flip flop and I can't stand him and (b) because if McCain dies, I have total confindence in the governor of Alaksa!

Anonymous said:

ISSUE JOHN McCAIN
BARACK OBAMA

Favors new drilling offshore US
Yes
No

Will appoint judges who interpret the law not make it
Yes
No

Served in the US Armed Forces
Yes
No

Amount of time served in the US Senate
22 YEARS
173 DAYS

Will institute a socialized national health care plan
No
Yes

Supports abortion throughout the pregnancy
No
Yes

Would pull troops out of Iraq immediately
No
Yes

Supports gun ownership rights
Yes
No

Supports homosexual marriage
No
Yes

Proposed programs will mean a huge tax increase
No
Yes

Voted against making English the official language
No
Yes

Voted to give Social Security benefits to illegals
No
Yes

CAPITAL GAINS TAX

MCCAIN
0% on home sales up to $500,000 per home (couples). McCain does not propose any change in existing home sales income tax.

OBAMA
28% on profit from ALL home sales. (How does this affect you? If you sell your home and make a profit, you will pay 28% of your gain on taxes. If you are heading toward retirement and would like to down-size your home or move into a retirement community, 28% of the money you make from your home will go to taxes. This proposal will adversely affect the elderly who are counting on the income from their homes as part of their retirement income.)

DIVIDEND TAX

MCCAIN
15% (no change)

OBAMA
39.6% - (How will this affect you? If you have any money invested in stock market, IRA, mutual funds, college funds, life insurance, retirement accounts, or anything that pays or reinvests dividends, you will now be paying nearly 40% of the money earned on taxes if Obama becomes president. The experts predict that 'Higher tax rates on dividends and capital gains would crash the stock market, yet do absolutely nothing to cut the deficit.')

INCOME TAX

MCCAIN

(no changes)
Single making 30K - tax $4,500
Single making 50K - tax $12,500
Single making 75K - tax $18,750
Married making 60K- tax $9,000
Married making 75K - tax $18,750
Married making 125K - tax $31,250

OBAMA (reversion to pre-Bush tax cuts)
Single making 30K - tax $8,400
Single making 50K - tax $14,000
Single making 75K - tax $23,250
Married making 60K - tax $16,800
Married making 75K - tax $21,000
Married making 125K - tax $38,750
Under Obama, your taxes could almost double!

INHERITANCE TAX

MCCAIN
- 0% (No change, Bush repealed this tax)

OBAMA
Restore the inheritance tax

Many families have lost businesses, farms, ranches, and homes that have been in their families for generations because they could not afford the inheritance tax. Those willing their assets to loved ones will only lose them to these taxes.

NEW TAXES PROPOSED BY OBAMA

New government taxes proposed on homes that are more than 2400 square feet. New gasoline taxes (as if gas weren't high enough already) New taxes on natural resources consumption (heating gas, water, electricity) New taxes on retirement accounts, and last but not least....New taxes to pay for socialized medicine so we can receive the same level of medical care as other third-world countries!!!





You can verify the above at the following web sites:

http://money.cnn.com/news/specials/election/2008/index.html

http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/issues.taxes.html

http://elections.foxnews.com/?s=proposed+taxes

http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/politics/articles/mccain_obama_offer_different_visions_on_taxes.html

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/barack_obama/

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/john_mccain/




Anonymous said:

When I vote this November, I will do so by really looking hard at every single american that is struggling, and are losing jobs and home. Not because of race, gender, republican, or democrat. But because these past 8 yrs. have not been good for anyone. We have a responsibility as people, to think what is really needed for this country to get ahead again! As far as Palin, she is an example for all women.....but I don't think she is prepared. Obama has little experience but when he picked Biden with 30 yrs record, my choice was very simple. I will vote for Obama/Biden. Think hard when you all vote....if McCain is not able, for some reason, to lead as President...that job will be passed to Sarah Palin. I can't risk my children's future by picking McCain/Palin. You all can't neither. Lets think ahead, not back.

Anonymous said:

Sarah Palin is a fresh face in the political world. She will bring a new perspective to the table. This was a very good move for McCain. Obama is not the best thing for america. We need someone that is proud to be an American and not ashamed of it. He doesn't even salute the american flag or put his hand over his heart during the playing of the national anthem. I wonder if he knows the words.

Anonymous said:

Where on earth did anyone get the idea that Obama is not proud to be an American? That is such absolute BS! Someone watch Fox News much? Pull your head out of your ass! Our country is in the worst financial state in recent history, we are losing our standing as the most powerful and respected nation in the world, our education system is failing our children, healthcare is for the wealthy or the dirt poor (and lets be reminded military dependents that we, as military families live in a SOCIALIST society, the very thing so many conservatives are afraid of), our military is stretched to the breaking point, we are living without our deployed spouses...this could get really long but the point is people we need to CHANGE the way things are! If a brilliant, well-educated person with fresh ideas and proven experience to lead and GET THINGS DONE wants to take over and improve this great nation then why on earth can't we give him a chance? McCain is fine, although I've lost respect for him as he's quickly lost every "maverick" bone in his body, he now conforms strictly to the GOP and chose a running mate to bring in those that didn't approve of him on the far right. He changed his religion for those votes for crying out loud! Anyway, please remember this man voted with our current president 90% of the time. There is your maverick!

Anonymous said:

I am a mother serving in the military and will be leaving in November. I am happy that Sarah Palin was chosen because she is a woman, but I think she was a pawn. It is wonderful to see a woman chosen for this position, but it was just because she is a woman. That is not right. I would consider myself liberal in views, but I had much respect for McCain. The main disagreement I had with his views was about the war in Iraq. I feel he will not only have us over there for a long time, but may start another war.

Another thing I can't get over is how Gov Palin can leave her baby. As a mother, we should wait until our children are at least in school to start taking on major responsibility. At least she could wait until her child was walking. My son is almost 3 and I'm about to be a single parent. I can't imagine staying in the military because I have to be there while he goes to school. I don't want to miss any of it.

Anonymous said:

from a proud republican. ok i may not be an adult and i may not know much. but point blank, i AGREE with everyone on here who likes who Palin is and where she is going with this campaign. She is a fresh face, which is good and that i think she is an amazing person. i don't think McCain used her. i think 2 many pple have been watching 2 much abc just like one of the obamas supporters said that some one has been watching to much fox news. well all abc is doing is assuming loads of BS about Sarah Palin. She has very well good experience, such as leading her state in the right direction. she cares for her country, she cares for OUR PEOPLE, and she cares for peoples jobs that are constantly being lost. let me fill in the blanks for those who don't know. She is a strong willed person so stop filling other peoples heads with crap, from what you hear on those news channel that assume to much crap. Trig Palin is her son, not Bristle Palin's (who is now with child). I personally think that the media (who are a bunch of pinheads who makes other peoples life a living heck)need to leave her alone r find out the truth about her. btw shes a ffl feminist for life women who are against ABORTION and are for womens rights.

for a man who has been through alot for his country has every right to be americas next pres. and sarah has every right also to be vice pres.

everyone is saying that all this is dealing with race and gender. i have no prob. with obama he is not experience and has no background and also he is a democrats which who are pro-choice. the no. 1 reason why i am republican and why i wouldn't vote for him. if i was old enough which i wish i was. well to all you McCain supporters keep supporting and keep FAITH in both McCanin and Palin. so how you like that from a 16 year old.

p.s. wikipedia is not 100% accurate @ all.

Anonymous said:

proud repulican.

my favorite comment on here was the one with the woman who made perfectly sense and was very truthful. about sarah palin.
she is a successful business woman and mother. she is 100% not a pawn.

i am the girl who wrote the one about how sarah palin is an amazing person. aka the 16 yr old. GO McCAIN * PALIN!!!


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* * * * * * McCAIN * PALIN
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* * * * * * McCAIN PRES. OF THE USA
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* * * * * * PALIN VP OF USA
* * * * * * *====================================
* * * * * * COUNTRY FIRST
=============================================
FAITH.HOPE.LOVE.I PLEADGE ALLEGIANCE UNDER GOD.
=============================================
GOD BLESS AMERICA.
=============================================
EVERYONE GOD BLESS. PRAY FOR ABORTED BABIES. PRO-LIFE.

Anonymous said:

Well, having a husband that has served in the military for over a decade, I wouldn't feel safe with you in his command or any command for that matter. You should most definitely get out of the military - we don't need wimpy, little cry baby's that can't take it or need their mommy once they are asked to actually do their jobs. Oh, I guess you signed on the dotted line because someone put a gun to your head and made you serve, right? Not because you LOVE this country and everything she stands for. Which is FREEDOM, if you have forgotten. Have you ever picked up any book about our Nation's history? That is why I adore my husband; he is a true patriot and loves this country with everything that he is and stands for, as do I. Oh, and if you think Sarah Palin is such a horrible person because she is going to leave her youngest one behind, I guess you missed her old interview while she was pregnant on Greta Van Sustren tonight, "An American Woman". You know, our brave men and women are willingly giving up their lives to protect Americans, day in and day out, and not just because of their Commander and Chief sent them there or for a paycheck, but because they truly love America. Why has so many forgotten about the thousands that were lost on September 11th? Have we been attacked on U.S. soil since that horrible day? I wonder why??? It is certainly not because the Taliban, Alkida, etc. don't hate our guts anymore or would not absolutely love to wipe us off the face of the Earth. I can tell you exactly why they risk it all just for us, because of so many of our amazing military men and women refuse to be intimidated by evil. They choose to stand up against it, even though it may mean he/she may never come home - just to make this world a safer, better place to live. (Including your 3 year old) I think that kind of service, devotion, and the will to protect our beautiful country is something to be proud of, not try to make all of their unimaginable sacrifices seem meaningless, politically driven, and completely in vain, as so many do.

Anonymous said:

"I think that kind of service, devotion, and the will to protect our beautiful country is something to be proud of, not try to make all of their unimaginable sacrifices seem meaningless, politically driven, and completely in vain, as so many do."

I don't know a single person who feels our soldiers are meaningless. You can be against the war and still support our soldiers, a fact that so many seem to not understand. And I am sorry, but this war IS politically driven whether we like it or not. It is a sad, sad thing to realize but it's true. It doesn't mean our spouses are anything less than amazing or heroic. Not many voluntarily do what they do or would even consider it.

We can love our country, love our soldiers and support Obama-Biden. We are every inch as much American and patriotic as the right wing. I am so sick of Republicans thinking they have cornered the market on what is a "true American".

Obama '08

Anonymous said:

Sarah Palin scares me. Anti-birth control, anti abortion, anti sex ed (and look where that has gotten her daughter). McCain hasn't even figured out that condoms can stop the spread of AIDS.

Whenever I see them on television, I feel the urge to donate a few hundred dollars more to Planned Parenthood. Sadly, my husband and I would be broke in about twenty minutes.

I really don't understand how any woman can call Palin a feminist. Pregnancy can bring about serious medical complications, and not all of them kill. Her stance basically says, "the potential a fetus has is worth more than the life and health of an adult woman". I suppose trivial things like the physical and mental health of women don't really matter to her, though.

Luckily, I'm a Canadian expat, so I can jump home if I never need access to a legal, safe, free abortion. Rich American women will be able to jump a border to Mexico or Canada and do the same. Sadly, it'll be the middle and working class women who will suffer.

Anonymous said:

McCain/Palin is the ONLY ticket that will ensure future success of your loved ones' military careers.. If it was up to Obama we wouldn't have a need for militaries and Military funding would be slashed. PERIOD. That includes par raises, and safety equipment for our troops. We may pull out of Iraq, but our loved ones will ALWAYS deploy. That is the life that your sailor.soldier.marine.airman signed up for.

Anonymous said:

After her interview last night, we should all think very seriously about her as a possible President. I would LOVE to see woman as a President. In the end, it does women more harm than good if she is not completely prepared for the job. In my honest opinion, I do not think she has the education or experience to be VP, let alone President. We expect our teachers to get a master's degree within 5 years, but we think it is OK for her to be VP without an advanced degree. McCain does not have an advanced degree BUT he did attend the Air Force Academy and he has YEARS of experience. Our husband's children's kives are at stake here. We cannot be emotional or have gender bias about this year's election.

Anonymous said:

Agree with the previous poster. She is gravely unprepared for this job. Someone who would accept such a major responsibility "without blinking" is cause for concern. She loves the limelight and frankly seems to be a bit of a control freak. I liked John McCain until he made this decision, now he seems unsteady and she, well, for an Independent secular voter, she seems downright frightening.

Anonymous said:

Goodness, it is just so awful that she is religious. We wouldn't want another leader who believes in God. That is exactly what we need. Gossip magazines are full of shit and every single person in the world has some "dirty laundry." What exactly is her dirty laundry? That she has a pregnant teenage daughter? So do millions of other Americans (one reason why so many people can relate to her. Of course, let's not forget that she is pro-life and may want to take away the precious right to choose. Abortion can cause medical problems too. Feminists bawl that women never made it that high in political office and then when a woman has the potental of becoming Vice President of this country she is torn apart for not believing in abortion.

Anonymous said:

I find Sarah Palin to be a down to earth young lady with strong character and conviction to herself, family, country and to God. I admire her and her family they are the American
family that is the exammple of what all families should be.
People question her ability because she has a family; did
any one question Nancy Polosi's ability when she had a child or two more then Governor Palin and not all of Polosi's children were grown when she went into the political arena.
I do not know the ages of the Polosi children when Mrs. Polosi took on her political roles. But I'm sure Governor Palin is up to the task.
She has as much if not more experience as democratic candidates Obama and Biden. And she knows she can do all
things through Christ out Lord who will strenghten her as she prays to be the insturment of God's will.
I admire the fact that she is pro-life and has brought a beautiful life into the world; anyone who has had a child or
worked with down's syndrome people knows the are a true reflection of unconditional love. They are very loving and
giving of themselves in all they do. And as for her young daughter being with child ; I applaude the family for pro-life; it makes me wonder how many of the democatic party is wagging their tonuges about this and at the same time have sent their daughters to an abortion clinic or had abortions themselves. The choice does not and should not take place after the fact but the choice begins when the couple decides to engage in the act of lovemaking and taking the responsibilty of what comes with it; abortion is the easy, self-centered and cowardly way out. There is enough controceptives on the market and if you still become
pregnant then that child is to come into the world. We have
thrown away a whole generation of people ( a baby
holocaust) has taken place. And as for a woman's health, I
was one of the women with a pregnancy that threatened my health but that baby came in to the world bright and healthy
and I recovered fully I was told not to have any more and I
heeded the advice of my doctor I was truly grateful for the one I could have. I had a tubaligation.With all of the millions of abortions I often wonder how many of those babies could have been the one who may have grown to be the
scientist/doctor who held the key to curing the dreadful illness that some of us battle. Late term abortion: I cannot
think of one medical condition that would have need of such
a procedure, delivery of the child by c-section or inducted
delivery but not an abortion and if the child is not wanted there is the option of adoption for those who cannot have a
child of their own could then be available.
My prayers go out to our leaders and this country May God
bless America.

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