I never EVER think of myself getting married in a fancy ceremony. For me the perfect wedding day would be wearing a really nice/fancy dress (just a short, cocktail type dress)...sleeping in, getting coffee at a fancy cafe, going to a court to get married, and then just spending the day together at the beach, shopping at a farmers market, making a nice dinner, and then doing for a nice long walk at the beach. We would splurge on nice desserts, food, etc. ahhhhhh I can't wait for this day.