I have sacrificed a LOT to further my husband's career. We have moved once every year or two since being married, so I've been to 4 colleges till finally settling for online. I have only been able to get a (crappy) job three times in the last six years because we're constantly dealing with moves/setting up a new house only to take it down again/trying to visit home/deployments in conjuction with a horrible economy. I am sure that a lot of other wives have been in my position. If that makes me or them lazy and a "leech" then whatever.