Did couples counseling and I finally admitted to DH that since we have been married I have struggled with depression, And that I never told him bc i didnt want to let him think i was weak. He pointed out that Im fine for a few weeks on keeping up with housework then I stop doing them, that was all part of my depression. I go next week to see about treatment. I go to employment readiness to see about a PT job with daytime hours. I hope its not to late bc he told me that he is starting to resint me. Now I feel that me hiding my depression has wreck my marriage.