My "dh" cheated on me with several women by the time I figured it out. One of them was the mother of one of his older kids. I divorced him after he used visiting his best friend's grave who was KIA when they were in Iraq as an excuse to keep hooking up with a woman he met on FB. They got married 3 weeks after our divorce was final. The new wife (his 3rd) just caught him cheating with the same "baby mama." It's been 6 months since they got married. Did she really think having an affair with a married man, then marrying him would change him?