"I am secretly hoping that my husband will never get deployed." -------- Youre pathetic. And i like how I cant comment that and tell you. Good luck w that happening. Theres a few useless pieces of soldiers that dont ever deploy for whatever their reason may be

I am on a message board for "life", babies, home, money, etc. There was a girl complaining that her DH was going away for 3 weeks on business and they'd never spent a night apart. She was ripped to shreds by a couple of military wives for being "lucky". It doesn't matter if it's one night or one year, everyone is entitled to miss their SO. I was embarrassed to be an army wife at that moment.

Reading confessions on this site make me embarrased to be a military wife.

No, I don't expect him to waste days thinking of the perfect Christmas gift to send me from Iraq. But I do expect him to spend 15 minutes online sending a bouquet of flowers. And I absolutely will complain if it doesn’t happen. In case there are any men reading this, here's a simple equation: 15 minutes + www.1800flowers.com + 40 bucks = a happy wife

I REALLY am confused... why does everyone keep saying that military wives are looked upon as trash and everything negative. I have been around the military all my life as a dep daughter then shortly after I got married as a dep wife and I have NEVER noticed any such thing. Maybe it's the way people act perhaps?

I can't stay if he cheats on me. He has never been a cheater and ONE indiscretion in the course of an *entire lifetime* (I'm talking drunken one time deal sort of thing!!) MIGHT be forgivable. (although I know I won't do it- so how could I forgive him if he did?) I know I will never ever forget and that is why I will have to leave him. I don't know how some women can stay knowing what was done to them.

DH leaves soon for some training. He will be gone for a little under 3 months and I am tired of having to preface that by "I know it isn't as long as a deployment..." Well, obviously it isn't 12-15 months, but it is still time apart and I'm going to miss him terribly.

My husband is on deployment right now...and although I miss him horribly, and it's hard living without him.. I like my peace and quiet. I know how it sounds, but sometimes I'm more comfortable not having him around because I don't have to do what I don't want to do.

Days like today I hate the Army. They overpaid my husband when he got back from Iraq. We knew this and planned for it for when they would take it back....ok so that was two months ago. They took the money the begining of Nov. Well we look at the LES and his pay is....$27.00. They f*cking took it again. I swear the army just loves to screw you over

That missing pregnant marine is dead, breaking news. How sad!