There is a fellow military wife that I know that recently complained about how she was not going to be able to enroll her son in school because her DH was away training and she didn't have money for a ride anywhere because she's afraid to drive. Well, I am constantly seeing new piercings on her face and new plug earrings and cigarettes so obviously she has money. A cab ride to and from where she needs to go would be $20 or less. Why sacrifice your kid's education because you are selfish?