Why did I marry a man with a child, why? I could never have predicted just how negatively it would affect my life. What a mess I got myself into.

I hate when dh does something that he knows was wrong and then, instead of just talking it out and apologizing, he falls all over himself doing "stuff" he never usually does. Walking the dog, laundry, cleaning the bathrooms, making dinner. Oh, he just cant do enough. I know he's trying to score points, but I wish he'd just man up and admit he was wrong. It's such a turn off.

Op of not seeing dh in a month bc of our work. We were off together yesterday afternoon, but he was such a d*ck the whole time that I didn't even want to be around him! Super disappointed..... I tried to figure out what was wrong but he kept blowing me off till I finally just said forget it. Sucks...

How about not being recognized for Christmas, V-day, Mother's day. Having a big blow up about it last weekend because I felt like he doesn't care, I hosted a luncheon and bought his mother a card/gift on Mother's day. This weekend BIL's GF graduates and I provided cake, helped with the party. But DH decides to give her 100 on top of it. Yay! Thanks for thinking of everyone else! An his birthday & father's day are in the next two weeks. Gee-can't wait to make the same effort for you honey.

I'm glad I didn't marry a guy who treated Valentine's Day like a chore. I don't expect you to hire the local opera company to perform an original aria on the topic of my undying beauty, but guys who pre-emptively start bitching about Hallmark in January so they don't have to buy you so much as a $5 supermarket bouquet should go #$%^ themselves.

My dad used to come home and yell at us kids when he had a bad day at work, and now I'm acting the same way. I don't want to be this person. Why do I let it get under my skin so much? Why do I let this dumb job have the power to change my whole personality?

If my spouse cheated on me I admit, I'd really need to divorce. No way would I be able to forgive and forget. I'd be malicious and make him suffer for the remainder of the time we were together. I would only live to make him miserable. Nope, cheating on my end would mean end of our relationship. That kind of trust, in my world, can never be repaired.

I have started referring all mother-in-law homemaking criticisms to my husband immediately. Honey, *do* we have a cleaner dish scrubber? Honey, maybe we do need a giant bookshelf in the living room (with our toddler who loves to climb). Honey, let's skip the safety upgrades to our home we have planned and get a decorative fence instead. I can't imagine my mom nagging my husband about these things, so it seems only fair that my husband should deal with his mom's weird priorities for our home.

whatever we had is gone. im praying you just dont come home tonight

My husband took all three kids to a family bBQ on his own while letting me stay home to sleep off a migraine, then brought me home ribs, tater salad and corn on the cob with a Pepsi. Best. Husband. Ever.