If someone has your in their wedding, do you HAVE to have them in yours?? My old high school friend wants me in her wedding but we rarely ever talk and i just dont want to look back and wonder why she was there.

coming up on my 4 year anniversary. I love my fiance so much, to all those who thought we wouldnt make it just cuz we met when i was 16, you so aren't getting an invite to the wedding : )

Heading to Disney with dss4 for his 5th birthday. His biomom asked dh if she could have pictures of dss at Disney. I was so mad dh said yes! First off biomom has neverworked with us our made our life ready...I am the over who spent 2000 to take dss to Disney not her..I know its petty but this is our family vacation...take your own

In the middle of our family easter weekend...me and dh had a quickie in the upstairs bathroom with the rest of the family down stairs...total rush..have never done it before...felt very dangerous...lol

somedays are easier than others...but i still cant get past the constant sadness I feel when dss5 isnt with us. I know his mom loves him in her own way...i just wish she made better decisions and would put him first and not drugs...i just miss him....

other day my sister was getting ready to take dss5 back to his moms...he said "wait i forgot something", and grabbed flowers he had just picked. My sister was like "oh did you get those for your mom" dss:yeah for when i see her next sis:well im taking you right back now.. dss:no not kendra (his biomom) my real mom in findlay oh (me)...lol cant help but to smile. I know she is his "real" mom but it feels good that even at 5 he realizes how much I love him and that her trying to make him hate me isnt workin and he realizes how little she cares..score 1 for stepmommys!!

going through some of my old truu posts...wow didnt realize how long i have been apart of the truu family! Im so glad to have everyone here to help me go through all our custody troubles, my schooling, wedding and more! Thanks everyone!

I hate that I have to dumb myself down for my man. In the middle of a fight I have to define words for him.

My man is gone for the weekend, and we had a fight before he left. so you would think he would be extra nice this weekend while he is away. NOPE! Instead he is barely texting or anything. Whatever, im just gonna enjoy this time to myself!

My man gets back tonight from a weekend away. Before he left we were fighting and never really solved it....so should i give it up tongiht?? Decisions....decisions

my man just recently went back to school about 3 weeks ago. I am so proud of him but him being gone from 7am-8pm is starting to get rough. Im not really the clean the house, make dinner kind of girl...ready for my school to start back so im just as busy so i dont feel bad if the house is dirty then

FH is a heavy sleeper, never hears anything at night. well my dss came into the bed room at 5am, and for once i woke him up cuz i had to work in the morning. And he got up with him with no complaints...maybe i will have to wake him up more often