Hmmm u think because you're hot and successful you are not trash? I believe you definitely got it all wrong! You ARE trash because you are knowingly/willingly having an affair with a married man. (wedging yourself where you clearly do NOT belong) Have you ever seen this woman? Or did he tell you she let herself go?(believing what he says? lol!) Go ahead and see if you can HAVE him....I don't think you'll be having the last laugh. No morals or high standards.

If you truly want her to find out about the affair why don't you drop her some hints and see if the outcome is what you really expect? I am betting she will attempt to kick him to the curb, I also believe he will come crawling back to his family. They will fight, cry, scream and blame one another and then begin to rebuild the bridge to trust again and YOU? Will be left out in the cold devasted and shocked because You believed the hype. Women like you will never find someone who will love and respect them because you don't hold yourself to that standard.

I knew I should have gotten my tubes tied instead of letting Dh get the vasectomy... at the time I didn't plan on having a steamy affair...

I had a dream DH & I were divorced and meeting up with each other to have an affair. So. Weird.

I'm going to start a FWB affair with a married man. His wife doesn't even care!

I'm best friends with the man I had an affair with. We haven't slept together in years, but we talk almost every single day.

I hate being monogamous. My entire life I always had 2 guys by my side. Since kindergarten as friends and all the way into adulthood as more that friends. Then I got a bf and was faithful for 7 years... something was missing anyway, I ended up having an affair which is still going on till this day (for more than a year) and I feel fulfilled again (with 2 men). I just wish I didn't have to lie and could be honest without losing him. I keep telling him I have a secret lover/ another bf and he thinks I am joking. I am not. And I'd be ok if he wanted someone 2nd too but he's way too conservative .

DFH is completely freaking out because apparently, I said someone else's name in my sleep...mind you, he does not remember the name. It hurts, because during a rough time in our relationship, he DID cheat, and we worked through it. I had to face pictures of him kissing someone else, who was malicious and viciously harassed me for months after the affair ended. And I say something in my sleep and get this kind of reaction? I am hurt beyond words and pretty damned angry to boot...

Our wedding was about 150 guests, full cath ceremony, reception afterwards at hotel...I hated planning it the whole time and just wanted a small intimate affair with close fam and friends (dh wanted the big wedding). Mom drove me nuts trying to 'act like' they were paying for everything so had control even tho we pd for most, moh was terrible, and ils did nothing at all. I couldnt wait for the wedding to be over and we are happily married with 2 kids and one on the way! I will never plan another wedding ever lol

You told all of us in the office that we were B list invites...but we shouldn't be offended. That's cool, I get it that weddings are very expensive. But don't you be offended when I decline. I simply cannot afford your elaborate affair, and we're not really that close anyway.