Having a private wedding next month, and I'm kinda bummed. If it wasn't for family drama, then I'd get to celebrate with everyone. I probably won't even get a gift for one of the happiest days of my life. I know it's not "about" material -- but I think it's a little funny how we show appreciation/excitement for only people who do things the way we want to.

If you truly want her to find out about the affair why don't you drop her some hints and see if the outcome is what you really expect? I am betting she will attempt to kick him to the curb, I also believe he will come crawling back to his family. They will fight, cry, scream and blame one another and then begin to rebuild the bridge to trust again and YOU? Will be left out in the cold devasted and shocked because You believed the hype. Women like you will never find someone who will love and respect them because you don't hold yourself to that standard.

I don't understand when wives get mad at the other woman when their husband is caught cheating. I was casually dating a man and had absolutely no idea he was married until his wife found my facebook and messaged all of my friends and family telling them that I was a giant whore.

I've been with my dh since we were 14. Got married at 23. Now 29 and starting to realize I'm bi. Always kept those feelings hidden, grew up with a rough family life and attended church with him. Never cheated on him. Really overwhelmed.

I had sex with my husband, then boyfriend, in the back seat of a van with his entire family in the vehicle, after he graduated from boot camp, and then proceeded to have another romp session in a beach bathroom. Grossest moment of my life(btw), but he certainly enjoyed the experience. Stupid, stupid teenagers.

My soon to be ex is having severe health problems. They told him it is his heart, but he refuses treatment. Then, yells at me because he says I am stressing him out and making it worse. He is a verbally abusive idiot who lives for making my life a living hell. My confession is I really don't care about his health problems. If he doesn't get it taken care of he will die. The only thing that bothers me about that is my kids will be devastated and his family will make my life a living heck. I am the only one who knows how bad his health is. He lied to his family about how bad it is.

Here is a truu sex confession. My bf and I are swingers. We actually met in the lifestyle. We go to parties and clubs every month with a core group of about 50 or so people. I have so much fun with these people who have become like a family to me. It's bizarre and sometimes it feels like I have a double life but I love every minute of it

Just got my engagement photos back and started crying. I look enormous - fat rolls and a double chin. The lighting is so bad that it looks like they were snapped with a disposable camera. How can I send these to people? And photographer is a family friend (totally NOT my idea), so no, I can't reshoot. Miserable!

We didn't have a big wedding because it wasn't what we wanted. Family can get all pissed off but their feelings were not our problem. Our money, our choice. Why would we want a bunch of breath holding, spoiled brats at our wedding anyway? Throw your own shindig if you want one so badly.

I love my fiance, but his family drives me CRAZY!!!