I'm a single mom to a 6 month old baby. My husband passed away while I was pregnant. I just dropped my baby off at a sitter for two hours so I could do a thorough clean of my house without baby needing something. I just spent an hour and a half getting off w my vibrator. House is still messy. I feel guilty and also more relaxed than I've been in months.

My friend's husband (FH) has been telling both me and DH that he wants to have sex with me. The other night I had a few too many drinks, and while DH and I were working up to sex, he started taking close-up pictures of my pussy and texting them to FH. I told him not to at first, but it turned me on so much that I went with it. FH started txtng me saying that he was jacking off to the pics, and he was txtng DH making specific requests for more pics. DH and I ended up having really hot sex while giving FH a play-by-play. I feel so guilty, but I'm still horny just thinking about it.

My husband does the majority of the housework and I don't feel guilty about it because he hasn't given me an orgasm since 2011.

I met a guy for NSA sex a few times (both married), and then moved within a few weeks. The sex was mind-blowing. Amazing for both of us. Now we chat and exchange erotic emails. I feel guilty but can't stay away.

I also don't mean an entire afternoon..just an hour or two..I just feel guilty about asking her to help with the dress.

Also forgot to mention that the next time I go home is the wedding so the best time to get the dress is when she is here. If she couldn't come I would have to get the dress on my own. I am willing to do that but I just thought she would like to help. She said she wanted to be there with me but I feel guilty now for taking time away from her visit here just to help me..

I grabbed dh's ball too hard last night (oops). He pulled out and I grabbed him to help him finish. Apparently his ball still hurts. He is making me feel guilty and says next time he will just go inside and get me pregnant (we use other birth control too but have gotten pregnant while on it so pull out as back up). I feel bad but I was just about to orgasm again when he pulled out and was not focused on what I was doing.

H and I had a 2 guy 3some a long time ago, I told him the night it happened if we did it he would not be getting a 2 girl 3some. He said ok and a few months later tried guilting me into one. I finally said if I ever find a girl I'd be ok with we can do it. I have no intention of ever finding her. He's deployed now and asked about it not too long ago. Along with a 3some with a cross dresser/m2f trans. It's all pretty much off the table since we had ds. I'm not sending him to a sitter so we can have sex-capades I don't even want. He should have thought about it before we started TTC.

Why is "the number" so important to people? I don't think my number not high. I wouldn't mind it being higher. When I wasn't married I felt guilty for being with someone because of religious reasons. Now that I'm older and I realize you are only young ONCE. I would have liked to have been with more people. Sex didn't become exciting until my 30s and then I got married!

Sexual fantasy comes in all forms. A "deviant" fantasy is not a reflection of the person's self worth or self respect, nor is it a reflection of how they feel about themselves. The only bad thing about them is the guilt and shame others think we should feel as a result of what we like during sex. I don't feel badly about myself, other people apparently think I do, or that I should. Those are your perceptions of the situation, not the reality of it for me, or those who participate. I don't think you're a prude for having a 'vanilla' sex life, so stop with the hating.