My brother and SIL just planned what our (me, him, our other sister's) mother is doing for her Mothers Day breakfast. NICE of you brother, to consult with your 2 sisters before taking over! Might have been nice to ask us and the 3 of us make a group decision before making the decision for all of us and then "inviting" us to tag along.

hell yeah! i'm peter pan and i have a madonna-whore complex. so wut?!? i get to use some women to have the mother-love i missed out on and live out all of my sexual fantasies with the others. yeah, maybe it sucks for them, but it definitely does it for me :0)

My best friend just had a miscarriage. She celebrated the news because she is not married to her LIB and not ready to be a mother. I find her reaction unsettling in some ways. Yes, you didn't want the child, but I would still be sooo sad if I lost a baby with the man I loved. She seemed to not even blink about it.

Fiance and I just bought a house together and get to move in at the end of March. I posted my excitement on FB and my mother commented, "We?" Yes, mother, even though the wedding is in August we will be living together in the house that WE bought. And yes, having lots of sex in it. She knows damn well that we basically live at eachothers rentals now. Why would we continue to pay rent at one of our places just to satisfy her conservative views?!

Getting married in a few months. My mother says that maybe I should buy "peignoir" for my honeymoon.... i figured it was along the lines of lingerie.... i wikipedia-ed the term.... umm... hilarious... its the kind of robe that goes from under your chin, down to your ankles.... Umm... shes such a prude, she cant even imagine that maybe ill be too busy MIND BlOWING sex to cover my entire self up.

I have always been emotionally distant. I have a depressed mother and a father with PTSD; I had a very rocky childhood. All my relationships have struggled, except for two: the one I am currently in, and one I had in highschool. I split from my highschool sweetheart because we wanted different things from life. However I have always remained close with him, I'm afraid this is going to ruin the relationship with my fiance, but I'm also afraid to say goodbye to an old friend.

DH and I got married in a court house 4 yrs ago. We had our parents and siblings there. My mother was mad the whole time. When I asked her about it she said I took having a 'real' wedding away from HER. She has always been a selfish person, but that was it for me. The only thing I would change about that day is inviting her.

Do I really need (a) flower girl(s)? Or a ring bearer? I sort of want to skip the stress of dealing with mothers who aren't mine and working around their children's schedule. I know that their lives are important, but when I'm trying to plan a wedding and get through a rehearsal in less than 4 months it doesn't seem worth it.

One of the best things I did for my wedding was to give some stuff up and let others do it. I let my mom handle the decorations. I let my mother in law do a "surprise." They both offered, so I said screw it, I don't want the stress of doing all this stuff by myself. My wedding turned out beautiful. One of the best parts? The candy table my MIL organized. It was full of traditional Brazilian candies (husband is from Brazil). It matched our color scheme, i tasted great and it was a hit with everyone!

Well ladies, count me out. I just told BF of 5yrs he took too long to propose (obviously not something he wants badly enough) & I'm over the idea of being re-married. I'm too old now to have another child so cohabitation it is. If he wants to move out then that's fine too, I'm financially independent. I'm going to get my deceased Mother's rings from the safe that have been sitting 6yrs & wear them on my right hand. Congrats to the rest of you, I wish you all the best.