DH and I are going through a rough time with money, I got laid off in Jan and DH doesn't make much. I applied for SNAP. We don't have children. (Not only do we not want them, WE CAN'T FREAKING AFFORD THEM!) We didn't qualify because he "makes too much". WTF?!?!?!?! We can barely eat after paying our bills. Yet, if I were laying on my back, spreading my legs and giving birth at every opportunity, we'd have it made! Does any of this seem wrong to anyone else? Why do we REWARD being irresponsible?

I hope we get a chance to live overseas again. I thought that door was closed for good. But, DH's job told us there was a chance maybe several years down the road. It's a long-shot, but it's doable, and I hope it will happen.

I have circulation issues. My dh spurged on one of thise dry heat saunas for me this year. I LOVE setting up the ipad just outside the glass door, putting on somethjng good to watch, warming up amdnsweating!! I go in almost every day!!

Plan B is NOT an abortion pill. I had to listen to my dh's aunt freaking out about 5 yr olds being able to get abortion pills. I finally interrupted and said no, plan b does not cause abortions, I don't know where you heard or read that, but it's not correct. I didn't get mean or snotty, just very matter of factly said that was incorrect. She gave me the cold shoulder all night, like I was personally forcing 15 yr old girls into having sex and then forcing plan b down their throats.

Friends were there for me through my awful divorce, listening, giving advice. Now that the smoke has cleared and I'm making my new life, they seem to have disappeared! One friend told me her DH doesn't thinks she should hang out with a single woman - I guess I'll influence her to want to divorce? Kinda sucks but I guess I need to find new friends now.

My DH acts like he pulls his weight around he house but he doesn't. He gets mad when I remind him to do a chore, but if I don't it never gets done. Idiot.

My dh joined the military @ 21. Lots join later in life. There absolutely would be volunteers!!

I grew up in a home where I was taught the Christian faith, and prayer was a basic part of life. I prayed throughout the day about everything, big or small. I whole-heartedly believed what the bible says, that if you believe God hears, he'll answer according to his will. There were a few big things I prayed about for years, and one was my rocky marriage. I believed he'd heal our relationship. It had to be God's will since he hates divorce, right? Well my dh ended the marriage and now my faith is weak. Why pray if things aren't going to get fixed? Lots of unanswered questions for me too.

I hate how some of our friends have "lists" the list of celebrities they could supposedly cheat on with and it would be OK. Um no, just because someone is a celebrity does not make it OK to cheat, DH could cheat with someone next door or his dream movie star; cheating is cheating. I understand people do it as a fun game because it likely won't happen, but I still think its stupid. MY opinion. Not gonna say, "Oh honey you cheated with Alyssa Milano, it's OK then. Oh but you cheated with the lady down the street? It's over!" that makes no freaking sense.

Am I sorry your DH pissed dirty and is getting the boot? Nope. He is getting EXACTLY what he deserves. Unless and until that particular recreational drug is legal, he will continue to break the law, same as you, by partaking in anything "special" regarding it. scared? Oh well!