Deju va girl here. I managed to get ahold of my SIL & she going to come to the airport to get me and she is going to talk to her fiancée about lettin me stay at their house of awhile. Since I can't be distruptive to my fam. I'm debating were or not I should erd. I was planning on erding in march to get ready for us to start our civilian life together. DH's FBILsays he is becoming too much like his mom which isn't good, he trys to hold me to the same standard of cleaniness as his mother did to him. We agreed we got back together this last time we would do marriage counseling. I still love hi

Decal expired but I had to be on post. Waited in line and got a new one. So yes, I realize how silly I looked on the top of my SUV scraping off the old one and applying the new one. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do...

I did it. It wasnt his SIL I told but one if his best friends about the possibility of survivors guilt and what I went through with my DH. I feel so much better knowing that his friends have the warning I didn't. I would love to offer to be there for him to talk to should it happen but, I'm sure everyone else wants him to talk to them should he be sad, not everyone likes to open up to strangers, and I'm moving away in 4 months. I did what I had worried about most and hope that (god forbid) should he ever feel like my DH did someone will catch it before he even considers suicide.

Dear MIL, Your son has been in the army for over 10 yrs. Why is it so hard for you to understand that he cant just take "vacation" whenever he wants. and please stop making comments like " does your mother need to call your commander and discuss vacation" OMG!!!! You kill me when you say these things! and i understand that SIL is wanting a destination wedding, but DH can't help it if he isn't here! We don't have a crystal ball to see the future! OMG OMG OMG!

How is it my fault that you slept until after the haircut place closed? I don't know how late they are open and even if I did you told me not to wake you up because you were so tired. Silly me, you worked 27 hrs and I thought you meant it.Lord knows if I had gotten you up you would have been pissy all day. Set a EFFING ALARM if you have to be up at a certain time. Between kids, housework and dinner I'm a little busy. Certainly too busy to be your personal concierge!!!

I tried counseling with my husband a while back. We did an exercise where we had to look each other in the eyes and concentrate. He made a funny face and one thing led to another and we couldn't keep a straight face, giggling like little kids. You could tell at the end he was annoyed with us. We we're too embarrassed to go back, but it was pretty funny I was reminded of the silly guy i fell in love with. I miss him

So I chose not to send flowers to my mil and sil this mother's day. The reason, the lst 2 years I have and noted it was from my dh and I, they never once say thank you or call to say thx. I felt like it wasnt appreciated. Why spend/waste my money? Now dh feels bad because he thought I would send flowers so yesterday he says he felt embarrassed that we didnt send anything. Umm hello shouldnt you have been embarrassed that they never say thank you to me?

I hate my in-laws! MIL tries to pretend she is there for me in front of my DH, but never talks to me and now isn't inviting me and my kids to family events. My SIL has taken advantage of and now refuses to be anywhere near me. What did I do? I sure was there everytime they needed a babysitter or money or a shoulder to bitch on. Now I'm in this small town with no one. I gaurantee when DH comes home they'll be all over me, "how are you sweetie, why didn't you ever call, we tried to get ahold of you"! Sadly it happens every deployment, why do I keep coming back here?

speaking to my deployed husband on the phone and we were being silly and at one point i pouted and said oh you dont love me. by the way he took a breath and said oh honey, you have no idea how much i do love you.... well it literally made my heart ache for him.

I am on the on the phone with one of my dearest friends. I love her. BUT- I haven't said a word in 20 minutes. She finally said something kind of shocking and I let out an "OH MY GOD...REALLY??" and it was pretty hilarious. I am silently laughing uncontrollably right now, as she continues on with her story. I gotta stop drinking. But it makes discussions like this so much easier. EEEE