I am tired of working all the time plus caring for the house, the kids, and the dogs by myself!! I am so over this deployment! Tired of being stressed to the hilt and am burned out beyond words.

Really just needs a friend right now. Or maybe just a shoulder to cry on. Hubby has enough stress as it is with work and moving. At any moment I feel like I could just break down and cry...

Marriage is hard. Throw in the stressfull mil life then its really fucking hard. You want to be in a marriage where you are told beforehand its a contract and somehow you dont think he really means it that way? Then whatever you get, you deserve. You do not know your worth.

Stop blaming me for failing your pt test. I stress you out? No, it's called your too lazy to go to the gym.

I don't fight with people (maybe occasionally DH, that's really it). I say what needs to be said, and once it's out there, I'm done. People think I have fantastic self control. The truth is- confrontation just stresses me out, so I avoid it. I'm a dink.

i used to be bulimic... today i purged for the first time in 7 yrs. the stress of this wedding (18 days away) and him needing to be here, NOW (should be home in 9 days) is really getting to me. everyone tells me i am skinny and beautiful and i just feel ugly and fat. i miss my FH, am so overwhelmed w/ the stress of his family, my finals, and my family i guess purging was the only way i would feel better. i didnt even binge... :'(

The reason I know about failure of union was I have had it, my father had, and a friend had it. My failure of union was a stress failure that wont heal bc I couldnt keep weight off of it when I had to use stairs everyday, my dad's was his collarbone after he broke it, it was almost healed and he shifted just right in his sleep and rebroke it. A friend was both bones in his forearm were broke and he hit the table on accidently and the force rebroke. It also helps that I know this my aunts are othro sugerical nurses.

My DH hasent called me from Afghan, in 3 weeks. When he finnaly calls me, i asked him if it is easier for him to not talk to me, because i want this deployment to go by fast for him, and eliminate all stress, and i am sure i am stressful sometimes. It seems like all he wants from me is pictures ( for his own pleasure)and he doesnt want to have to tell me to do so. What do i do?

my two year old son kept bugging me and i kept repeating myself to him while his 8 month old sister was screaming her head off. he kept repeating how he didnt want his cereal bar so i grabbed it and threw it across the room. his feeling got hurt. i dropped down to give him a hug & told him i was so so sorry. i still feel horrible. how could i be so stressed to hurt my babies feelings? tear

I'm sorry, but I don't want to see your text complaining about how you haven't heard from your DH in 4 days! I haven't heard from mine in 2 weeks, and they're on the same ship! Yeah, yours works a less stressful job and has more internet access, so please be happy that you have that! I know this is your first deployment, your clingy (grew up in/never left this military area), don't have much of a social life, but please don't complain to me about not hearing from him in 4 days. It makes me want to yell at you to suck it up!