Had a bad fight this morning. I hate his temper, and his hypocrisy so much. I wish he'd just disappear sometimes.

Bad tempered husband i've been waiting to pcs with & finally start my life with after his deployment....txt me to tell me he wants a divorce. I asked him to at least call me to tell me why...the coward calls me to yell at me for 3 min & hang up. He decideds to call me a day later & says lets forget about the whole thing...i dont want a divorce. He acts loving now & pretends like he was never that cold heartless person that treated me like nothing but trash. I'm extreamly hurt by this & really unsure what to do.

Been together 3 yrs...married for one year. Husband will be returning home to the states when we PCS (spent the last year deployed). Im scared to live with him for the first time. He has a very violent temper (which i've witnessed recently while he was home for leave) & my family is concerned for me. Knowing he will be coming home to help me move soon. My family gave me a large amount of money to hide & use if i need to leave him.

My DH has joined the army, and Im worred about what its going to do to him as a person.We have had a somewhat rough road in dealing with his temper.He has has a lot of anger problems.But he is doing so much better,and we are finally at a good place.But he has joined the active army, and I have heard that this can make soldiers become angry people.He hasnt left for basic yet,but Im still so worried about this.

I feel bad that I don't miss my Army husband as much as I say I do. When he calls, I'm happy to hear from him, and when I visit him, it's like dating all over again (in a good way) but when I'm at home with our 4 month old daughter, I am just too busy to miss him. He hates being away more than I hate him being away. I hope that I don't become distant when we move back in together in a coupe months. OH...and the Army...has given him an explosive temper. I get it though, when you get yelled at ALL day at work, you're gonna come home (call home for now) and do the same. Shit rolls downhill.

Between the deployments, sick/dying parents, the hours alone, the lack of jobs here, the kids, the bills, the dog, education grant not coming through, being a bazillion miles away from family, fertility treatments and just plain ole annoyances. I'm beginning to develop a temper. Would it be so bad if I took an ax to something like a couch or a pile of wood?

his temper,,good lord his temper

Dh is on a very thin rope right now and doesnt even realize it. He has been such a HUGE jerk lately (kind words right now). If he has a temper flare up over something simple and ever talks to me or looks at me with such rage like he did last nite, he will be very surprised at what happens next. I cannnot handle many more outbursts like he has had lately. It is getting beyond bearable!

I'm ready to give my ex custody of my 2 y/o. If he's not breaking something or destroying the house he's having an outrageous temper tantrum. I've seriously had ENOUGH! Sometimes I wonder why I had a kid!

DH is coming home in a few weeks. He mentioned something about seeing a pschyciatrist because he may have PTSD. A week after he gets home I;m taking a 4 day vacation, but now I;m worried about leaving him with the kids if he does have PTSD. He had a short temper to begin with, I can't imagaine what it may be like now.