I think I want a divorce, but there's no way that I can support myself & DD without DH. He's just so miserable all the time and blames me for everything, I can't do anything right. Dinner's never quite good enough, not colorful or flavorful, like a restaurant. God forbid I be upset about anything, I'm not allowed feelings. If I *do* show some dissatisfaction, he turns it around until HE is the one pouting all night. I do all the cooking, cleaning, child care, animal care, mow the lawn, take the trash out, on weekends, he does nothing that he promises he will do because he NEEDS to relax. TORN.

OMG BF put things away where they belong! I am finding silverware in with the cooking utensils, plastic containers all mixed up and empty shopping bags all over the house. On cabinets, on top of the fridge, on the furnace, in the fridge. He is new to our home but really, like things go with like things it's not hard.

My soon-to-be husband's ex wife set the bar ridiculously low. She didn't cook, clean or keep herself nice, only spent his money and had 2 children that are with him most of the time. He's a hard working, good looking, kind and generous man and by cooking that poor man a few meals,and stroking his ego a little by telling him that he's wonderful and appreciated and wearing cute knickers for him once in a while just got me a sweet proposal and a big diamond ring. Without her ignorance, my happiness with him would not have been possible. So thanks.

He whined about picking up the tab everytime we eat out. Hey, i cooked for him daily, maybe it's time i start billing him for my cooking service.

I only like those take-n-bake pizza places if I buy the pizza and am not cooking it right away. If I decide at 5:30 I want Pizza for dinner-it's a cooked pizza joint all the way. I have no patience to wait. When I want take out, I want it ASAP!

I am starting to see the unfairness in this relationship. I do 99% of the housework, all he does is throw out the trash, even that i have to remind him repeatedly. I still pay for half the groceries, rent, utilities, every expenses (from my savings). He pays for most dining outside, but i am the only one cooking and cleaning, from bathroom to kitchen to bedroom to laundry. I don't work right now, but even if i do, i don't see any sign of him help picking up the slack of housework, EVER. My saving keeps depleting while he save money and got his full time housekeeper. What have i done???

While I'm away for a week in May, I hope the DH enjoys the full workload. Working, cleaning, cooking, taking care of all the kids' needs; all the things I do every day. Sure it's easy just coming home and playing Xbox every night. But I guarantee he won't have a minute to do that while I'm out of town.

For years I did all the cleaning, cooking, laundry and shopping. As well as workng full time. My DH really took it for granted. He worked from home and wanted me to prepare breakfast lunch and dinner for him. One day we got into a huge fight about it and I told him I would not be doing his laundry anymore or getting his breakfast or lunch but that Id still do dinner since Id be doing it anyways. Best decision ever. It took the pressure off me and made him have to step up and do his own crap! That was 6 years ago and yes our marriage is better because of it.

DH is cooking steaks that have turned brown in the frige. They smell. WTH is WRONG with you??

I have a really bad cold. DH took one look at me when he got home from work and told me he would make dinner and that I needed to go lay down. Now he's cooking (and singing) in the kitchen. He is such a keeper!