Make up your mind DH. Either I mow the lawn and you clean the house or I clean and you mow. You have plenty of time to mow during the week, you choose not to. We both work. I straighten up when I get home and you sit around playing on your IPad. You can try to guilt me into doing both but I know it isn't going to happen!

I have finally hit the point: I know longer feel guilty for wanting to be separated, I know longer feel swayed when he tries to convince me otherwise. I just want him out, like now and have told him so. Hopefully this will be over soon!! I warned him to be nicer to me, but he didn't listen.

I have been having an affair for 6 months. I don't feel guilty at all.

I went shopping today for some summer clothes and it felt so good until it came to pay for it. I haven't gone shopping like I use to for a couple of years. Felt guilty in the car on my way home. Got over 10+ items for about $120. I'd say I did good. Tried on clothes at home and love them all. Thank you Ross for the good deals.

Next Thursday marks 10 years since my father passed. I was 14. We never really got along and he was always sick. I'm not sure how I feel. It makes me sad that my dad died and it was a huge shock when I was a kid even though he was sick. Now? I'm not even sure I miss him or ever have. Or maybe I buried that so deep down I can't reach it (which wouldn't surprise me about myself). I just don't know how to feel and whatever I do feel on that day I know I'll feel guilty because I don't think it's the right way to feel.

I'm the one that posted about Dh taking sd shopping on Mother's Day...We have a newborn son plus I have my own biological daughter that lives with us and I have a strong hand helping him raise sd. I treat her like my own. I love sd and she deserves to have a wonderful birthday but I just want a turn to get attention once in a while. His guilt over not seeing her as much as he would like to drives him and I'm left to pay for it.

My life is now divided to "Before him" and "After him" .... i looked back at my old pictures on FB i noticed how happy and certain i was before that encounter with him.... now in all the recent pictures all i can see is guilt and dishonesty in my eyes...

A friend of mine is married & has a boyfriend on the side for the past 20 years. Another friend recently divorced her husband & got married to the man she was having an affair with for the past 3 years. Another friend rekindled her romance with her high school sweetheart from 30 years ago when they met up again via Facebook & he divorced his wife so that he could marry her. How did they do it? No ostracisation from society, no guilt no remorse no shame, they are happy. It's as if they were destined to be together after all... why does it work for some people and not others?

When will the hurt and the guilt go away? When will i be able to move on? It's been two weeks and I keep wanting to forget about him one moment and then thinking about ways to get him back in my life in the next moment. He doesn't want me anymore. I know that. Why do i still cling so desperately? I have no interest in my present life right now. I am just letting everything else go by because i am so consumed by the thought of him. Why?

Late dh wanted to die at home, and I did my best to let it happen, but there came a point where my sanity, health, and ability hit their limit. I don't feel guilty about putting him in a hospice facility. He was much more comfortable there than he could have ever been at home.