That nose "tweak" photo of Nigella LAwson looked like it hurt a lot and was meant to humiliate her by her abusive husband giving her a pig nose. I am horrified by him.

A previous confession rang so true to my life. I had to come of hormonal BC (developed bad reactions). My DH is refusing to wear a condom. refusing. So no sex, its been 4 months (we not ready for kids). I'm so scared this will be the end of us. It's so ridiculous. He would rather lose everything, put my health at risk than wear a condom. I don't understand. How does he go from amazing husband to teenage prick so quickly.

The saddest thing I've ever heard... My husband told me that as a young child he often fantasized about someone attempting to kidnap him, hoping that would make his parents appreciate him and actually give him some attention. He is 7 of 12 children. I've known his family since he was 11 years old and watched them be absentee parents to his younger siblings too. Heartbreaking and infuriating.

What do you do when you have two beautiful little kids and your husband adores you and you have no feelings for him whatsoever? How long can I cringe every time he touches me like I am a concubine?

I didn't realize how much I dislike my former adult stepkids until I got away from their father and them. They were disrespectful and expected the world handed to them. Part of my anger at all of them is envy that he would put their needs before mine every time. They got luxuries and he made me pay for everything for my own self. He pride himself on being a great dad but really isn't because he never lets them stand on their own. Now he's doing it without his wife - me. I hope to find another husband without this awful baggage, at least one who let his kids grow up & be independant.

I applied for my dream job. I was so close to getting it but now probably won't because someone in one of the offices stuffed up my test results. I rang husband distraught, crying, he has chosen to stay out with the workmates he hates instead of coming home to be with me. Ive called him 20 times. Someones incompetence has cost me my dream job and my husband chooses a party over supporting me. I think I need a new husband. A new life. A new country. I just don't know. I'm so upset.

I've been having an affair for 8 months. I've fallen head over heels in love with him. I would leave my husband for him. He won't leave his wife.

I had an affair 3 years ago. My youngest child is not my husbands. When my son was born I tested his DNA from his finger nail clippings and used toothbrush against my sons cheek swab all in secret. My ex affair knows about the child. I told him. We agreed to both take this to our grave to not destroy our families

My husband hasn't done the weekly grocery shopping in eight years. I'm not upset about it, but I am kind of amazed at how I just do it automatically and never question it. There are SO many more things like this.

My husband grew up on a farm where cats would go missing and assumed eaten by foxes, where a fox trying to get into the hen house would be shot on sight, and where the pigs were sent off to slaughter no matter what you named them or how young they were when you got them. I understand that that's farm life and that it's completely normal and how things have been running for hundreds of years. But I will never for the life of me understand why people in modern America still hunt and kill their own meat.