So DH has been sleeping on the couch the past few nights since I've been sick. Tonight he decides I'm well enough, he wants to come back to our bed. Problem is that I LOVE having the bed to myself and don't want him to ever give up the couch. Doesn't help that he has little to no compassion for me while I'm feeling like crap.

I can't handle this anymore. HE cheated, I am struggling with that, he won't talk about it, now he is sleeping on the couch and not speaking to me, I feel completely worthless, all I've heard is how I need to change. I feel like giving up. I feel like I'm not good enough for my kids, obviously he's gotten inside my head, I know that but it doesn't change how I'm feeling.

Friend told me she was drinking with friends who ended up staying at her apartment with her roommates. She said one of the guys tried to sleep with her and she kept saying no but then she passed out and didn't know why because she didn't drink a lot. Next morning guy was in her bed and she was sore down there and there was blood. She thinks he put something in her drink the night before. He raped her but she hasn't said anything to police and she washed the sheets so there isn't anymore evidence. I feel so sorry for her about what happened but I'm mad that she didn't tell the police.

dh is trying to make up all kinds of excuses as to why he needs to sleep in the room. (he's the one who's friend & son are coming). but the bed is so uncomfortable, they won't like it. they'll hate it. so i said, "then you'll enjoy the break when you're on the couch." i have to get up early and use the bathroom to get ready and brush my teeth and stuff. "we have the bathroom in the hallway." i'm not giving in. he wants his friend and son to visit, have at it. I AM NOT LOSING MY ROOM DUMBO!

dh told me, (not asked me), that his friend and son are coming to stay with us thursday & friday. last time this friend stayed it was over 100 degrees and he didn't shower 1 time he was with us for 2 days! so i asked dh where the guy & his ds are going to sleep. i sleep in the spare room because of dh's snoring. he just looked at me. i told him, well give them your king size bed and you sleep on the couch, because the spare room is mine, and your nasty friend didn't shower last time. figure it out or tell them to get a hotel.

I wish I didn't dream at all. I just want to sleep and have my mind completely non functional.

OP with the hypochrondiac Mom.Her doc has her come in every time she calls with one symptom or another. I just talked to her, she said she didint sleep well last night and was nervous.I offered to call her doc. She said she didint want to be rushed over there and she would call me back. The 1 time a few years ago that I just ignored her call she turned out to be realy sick with pnemonia.

Having major cramps. Tossed and turned in bed so finally decided to get out of bed so I wouldn't wake up my husband since he's a light sleeper. Am now sitting in the dark waiting for pain to subside so I can go back to bed. Dr. prescribed 3 pain killers and none works w/o me taking more than I should. Everytime I have my period, it feels like I'm having contractions, sometimes I cry cause it hurts so bad. I want a hysterectomy.

DH normally works 2nd shift, so he's used to staying up late and sleeping in until 2. I have no problem with this. However, this morning he had to be up at 7 to open. He stayed up until 4:30 playing Starcraft and then called in because he was too tired. Granted, this is the first time since we've been together that he has EVER called in without being in the hospital, but I'm still miffed. He makes a lot more than I do, and when he misses work it hits us much harder in the bank account.

Our family is having a blast in the Poconos. The only complaint: the beds are rock hard. It's like sleeping on the floor. Not only in our room, in all of them. But besides that its been a great vacation so far.